Transition

Transition

/tranˈziSH(ə)n/

n. the process or period of changing from one state or condition to another

From time to time we are called to transition from one point of life into another. This time can be scary and terrifying, but it can also be rewarding and fulfilling. Although a time of transition is a part of every person's life, it can be incredibly difficult to take that first leap of faith. 

I am currently experiencing a time of transition. I have finished my undergraduate degree as well as a few internships in Tallahassee, Florida. I am now transitioning to graduate school and a part time job in Athens, Georgia. 

I always have said that I liked change and excitement, but I'm starting to think that it's not true. The more I think about picking up and starting over, the more apprehension I feel. What if I don't like my new city, school, or job? What if I miss my friends or family? What if I fail?

A wise man once said (and by wise man I mean the children's show legend, Mr. Rogers), "Often when you think you're at the end of something, you're at the beginning of something else." I've decided to think positively and look forward to that something else. 

"Often when you think you're at the end of something, you're at the beginning of something else."

- Mr. Rogers

I've decided to keep this blog in order to chronicle the hectic change that's surrounding me. Although I may change where I live, who I spend my time with, and what I spend my day doing, this blog will be a place for me to come at the end of the day and share my thoughts and concerns. I look forward to the adventure coming and where it will take me next. I also can't wait to look back and see where the changes take me.

Today I turn 21, and this blog is born. Let's see where this goes.

Jamz

Jamz

So let’s talk about some things I like. I like the fact that it’s starting to get colder in Tallahassee, Florida. I like that my favorite coffee shop has free wifi. I like knowing the Seminoles are currently the number one football team in the nation. I like knowing I’m going camping later today. I also like music.

So let’s focus on that last one.  I love how music can put you in or take you out of any mood for any reason. I love how music can impact you whether you’re singing along with all your friends or just humming it to yourself in the car. Nothing makes music more enjoyable though than seeing one of your favorite bands performing your favorite songs live.

This past Saturday, I made the 5 hour trek from Tallahassee, Florida to Atlanta, Georgia to see Judah and the Lion. Judah and the Lion is a folk band originally based in Nashville, Tennessee. You know that cool factor it seems that everyone in Nashville seems to have. That cool factor that, if you don’t live in Nashville, it seems like you’ll never achieve. Well these guys have got that.

The Venue

Their songs range from slow croons to foot stomping jams. At one point in the show in Atlanta, there were dubstep influences as well as a little R. Kelly homage to boot (!!! Ignition Remix!!!).  However, the best part of the show was the joy the band brought to the crowd. With lyrics like “ain’t it funny how the simple things in life are the only things that really matter” and “we don’t  know where the road ends, but we’re having fun”. 

Judah and the Lion

So, if you need some new tunes for the upcoming week make sure you check out Judah and the Lion. My favorite songs include Somewhere In-Between, Fill This House, and Twenty-Somethings.

"Ain't it funny how the simple things in life are the only things that really matter."

- Judah and the Lion

Oh Hai! Remember that time I took a really low quality selfie with Judah of Judah and the Lion.

Motivational Monday Part 2

Motivational Monday

For today's motivational Monday, it seems that I will be preaching to the choir. 

I struggle with this on a daily basis. I constantly serve those around me. However, sometimes my desire to serve springs up for less than selfless reasons. Often times, when I serve others I know that it is the right thing for me to do and what is expected of me. Yes, I get the job done, but does it invalidate my service when it comes from a place of selfishness?

As mentioned in a previous post, this past summer, I worked WinShape Camps for Communities. My time with WinShape truly taught me the value of the above statement. My first few weeks of camp were much more difficult because I was doing my job based on the expectation of those around me. Once I started actively loving the kids I worked with, my job became easier and more fulfilling. By working out of love, I was energized. 

The pastor at my church here in Tallahassee always says that as Christians we are "called, not employed". I believe this further supports the above statement. If we see our jobs, our school work, and our relationships less as an obligation and more of an opportunity to love, I believe it can lead us to a happier state of being.

"We are called, not employed."

- Dean Inserra

My challenge for all of us this week (including myself, because Lord knows I'm all about that obligatory service) is to serve out of love. What are some ways that you can love on those around you this week?

Motivation Monday

Motivational Monday

So some life updates, this past summer I spent 9 weeks working for a summer camp called WinShape Camps for Communities (more on that to come), I've gotten an internship, and the Florida State Seminoles are still undefeated! 

Here's a short one, but a good one!

How do you define yourself? Is it the way you dress, who you associate yourself with, your career, what you're good at? 

In the past, I've used all of the above in order to define myself. However, I believe the above statement holds true. No matter what we wear, who we hang out with, what we do, or our talents, people will remember us fondly and cherish us if we treat them with kindness and respect. 

This Monday, I challenge us (myself included), to follow that golden rule we learned so many years ago. Let's treat others the way we want to be treated, and see where it leads us.

Winning London

Winning London

It seems like it has been ages since I last posted on here. I have been extremely busy the past few weeks, and had absolutely no time to write. But, I'm back and better than ever. Two weeks ago was Florida State's spring break. Instead of spending hours catching rays on the beach or recuperating from the busiest weeks of homework, I hopped on a plane for a week in London.

I traveled to London as a part of FSU's honors program. We spent a week exploring the culture and history of the beautiful city. This was my third time to London, but there is always something new to discover in this wonderful city. If you've never been to London, go ahead and make plans because I promise you will immediately fall in love with the city. 

London has something to offer for everyone. It's the perfect juxtaposition of the historical and modern. There's a ton of things to do from musical performances, high end shopping, museums, and delectable dining.

Check out some of the fun things I was able to see during my week in London:

Notting Hill Shopping

Notting Hill was extremely crowded but a great place to shop. Make sure you check out the markets on a Saturday with plenty of time on your hands. I watched the Julia Roberts and Hugh Grant movie on the flight over to check out the markets beforehand. I also highly recommend Geale's for the best fish and chips in London. It's a few blocks from the Notting Hill markets and has absolutely wonderful service. 

Christ Church College at Oxford University

We took a short day trip to Oxford. While there, we took a Blue Badge tour of Christ Church College, one of the most historic colleges in Oxford (think authors like Lewis Carroll, former Prime Ministers, and filming for Harry Potter). Oxford gave us time to escape from the busy hustle and bustle of London. It offered great shopping on its high street, wonderful history, and much more. I highly recommend visiting the Ashmolean museum and having afternoon tea in its 4th floor restaurant.  

Once: The Musical on the West End

We were fortunate enough to see Once while in London. It was one of the best musicals I have ever seen, and I have seen my fair share of musicals. The characters were relatable and lovable. While in London I also saw Matilda: The Musical and La fille du régiment at the Royal Opera House. However, Once was by far my favorite. Try getting tickets from their box office during the week for the best prices. 

High Tea at the National Gallery

Pretty self explanatory. We had delicious tea at the National Gallery with a beautiful view of Trafalgar Square. I personally recommend trying the English Breakfast tea, but don't forget the milk and sugar. Also, scones, clotted cream, and jam are officially my favorite food. 

Westminster Abbey

We were fortunate enough to attend an Evensong at Westminster. Evensongs are free to the public. It's a great way to see the Abbey without paying the ridiculous entrance fee. Also, don't you think this photo belongs on a brochure.

The London Eye

A lot of people say the London Eye is not worth the steep price and long wait times. I think everyone should do it once, and just once. I recommend doing it a night. The wait time is much shorter, and you get a wonderful view of all of the city lights. Also try to visit the eye on a clear night so you can get a good view of the city.

View from the Top of St. Paul's Cathedral

I worked hard for this picture. You have to climb 528 steps to the top of the cathedral for this view of London. However, it was definitely worth the effort. I was lucky enough to visit St. Paul's on a clear and sunny day.

Iconic Red Phone Booth and Big Ben

For one of the best tourist pictures in London, visit this telephone booth within site of Big Ben. I think it makes for a great photo. 

Friends from Class

I was lucky enough to spend the entire week exploring London with these lovely people.

Buckingham Palace

Most people say you should visit Buckingham Palace during the changing of the guard. However, there are always thousands of people there, and it can be really crowded. I much preferred visiting the palace in the early evening. You can also tour the palace depending on whether or not the Queen is in residence.

View from the Tate Modern across Millennium Bridge to St. Paul's

I think this photo shows a wonderful juxtaposition between the historical and the modern London. You have the modern architecture and art of the Tate Modern and the Millennium Bridge contrasted with the history and art of St. Paul's cathedral. The Millennium bridge is a pedestrian only bridge and offers some wonderful views of the River Thames.

Exploring the Tower of London

I explored the Tower of London with these two lovely ladies from the program. The tower offers a free tour with the Yeoman Warders of the Tower. This tour is engaging and entertaining for all ages. I highly recommend a visit to the Tower of London to all travelers with any interest in history.

Big Ben and the Houses of Parliament

We were able to tour the Houses of Parliament (but no pictures inside!). It was amazing to stand where some of the biggest movers and shakers of British politics such as Winston Churchill and Margaret Thatcher once stood. It also is very interesting to see how the architecture of Parliament differs greatly from the architecture of the houses of Congress.

I had such a wonderful time in London, and I can't wait to go back. One day, I would love to live there. 

Next to Normal

Next to Normal

I have discovered that college exposes you to many new experiences. You are trusted with more independence. You are exposed to a new environment filled with a diverse collection of people. Your mind is expanded in the classroom and in the real world. 

In my time at college, I like to believe I've learned a thing or two. These include language acquisition in adolescents, the kinship system of the Yanomamo people, and how to help an intoxicated roommate stumble into her bed at 4 in the morning.

 I have also made a few observations about my fellow university students. We struggle with waking up early. We will sacrifice our reputation in order to get free food or a free t-shirt. We will always procrastinate, no matter how far in advance we know about a project. Also, we are terrified of going against the norm.

Today's society encourages us to stand out, to make a name for ourselves. However, at the same time, it yells at us to conform. Conform to the same ideas, values, and beliefs. Change your personality, your hobbies, and your interests to be more palatable to those around you. Furthermore, we expect those around us to do the same. We are uncomfortable when people are so unashamedly themselves. We don't know how to handle it.

In a recent blog by SprinkleofGlitter (link below), she addresses the desire to be normal. She talks about how she always used to feel embarrassed when she let her "inner weird"out. I constantly find myself doing the same. 

In new social situations, I am either far too talkative or much to quiet, making those around me highly uncomfortable. I am unashamedly vocal about my passion for Harry Potter, Disney movies, Friday Night Lights, and Buffy the Vampire Slayer. Surprisingly, these are not considered appropriate conversation topics amongst general audiences.

Why do we feel the need to be normal? Normal people aren't the ones that stand out. Yet we continually try to edit ourselves for the convenience of others. I'm only 100% comfortable with a very select group of people. Why is that? Do we feel more vulnerable when people see we are not just like them? Or, do we become uncomfortable when we realize everyone is different from ourselves?

My goal throughout this week will be to stop my editing process. I want to expose people to the rough draft part of my personality and not my final copy. By being more open and vulnerable to those around me, I hope to become more honest and accepting of my own awkward personality and the personalities of those around me. Who knows, I might even find someone new to share in my weirdness?

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